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Curiosity Check and the Ask Approach
The Ask Approach is a framework from author Jeff Wetzler built on a simple premise: the insights we need most often already exist in the people around us, we just need to ask well. The five-step approach (curiosity, safety, quality questions, listening, reflection) offers practical tools for surfacing honest feedback and building trust, skills directly transferable to relational practice, staff culture, and leadership in schools and in the classroom.
Author/ source: Ask Approach by Jeff Weltzer
Last updated: 13/08/2026
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